Tonight, we are sitting in, watching the l word and there was a scene when two characters were discussing their future plans together. Where do you see us?
The thought about forever…what’s there to be afraid of? When a couple describe their relationship as solid, what makes that relationship solid enough to endure the task of forever? Is it boredom that breaks down that foundation that a “solid” couple has. Does the recognition of the same routine that comes with forever relationships unravels the fibers of ones believing that forever can actually be achieved, makes the future scary? The thought of the unknown, especially when you aren’t entirely sure that the person themselves is even THAT person you are meant spend forever with makes it somewhat daunting.
Most of my blogs ponders on the psychology behind formations of relationships however, I can only go off of what I know vs what I’ve experienced through a watchfull eyes. Maybe I blame myself for having a youthful outlook of it yet, it constantly gets mudded with fear and lack of experience in the rhlem of intimacy or relationship.
Either way, even now,that “forever” that relationship strive for, go towards with time, is damn near stressful to think about.
Over and out,